CFNM Village Discussion Forum

I have always found the thought of being in a CFNM situation very sexual and arousing. I was very surprised to find out that I experienced the opposite effect once I was in the situation. Due to a lost bet I had to strip and stay naked for my girlfriend and her roommate for the evening. I was secretly very excited to finally join in on my long standing fantasy, only to find that the excitement/embarrassment of being nude in front of her roommate gave me some horrible shrinkage, just adding even more to my embarrassment. I could not get hard that night at all. I usually measure up decently, about 7.5 inches hard and hanging between 4-5 inches, but that was not happening at all tonight. Maybe hanging 3 inches at the best of times. My girlfriend noticed I was not showing as well as I'd like, and even tried to stroke me a bit to bring things to life, but it just wouldn't happen.
Looking back at this night still excites me, but for the life of me I could not get hard in the moment. Has that happened to anyone else?

The adrenaline of the situation and the thoughts like "I want to be hard!" Are often so counterintuitive to what we actually want haha, yes I have experienced that before as well.

definitely sexual! i would find it hard not to get an erection in a cfnm situation!

I need stimulation most of the time to get it going which I think is quite unusual compared to other men. I could be naked in front of the best looking woman in the world, but it doesn't really twitch and then any average looking one touching it usually gets it going in seconds.

The times I was in this situation I tried to stay not fully hard to look as natural as possible.

I think a "semi" is more than enough

CFNM is definately sexual for me. I tend to have an erection at first, then this subsides and I walk around precumming a lot, but not being visibly aroused.

Then I fap about it later when I'm home

I think it's best to just be forthright about your arousal. Trying to pass as a nudist or whatever just leads to people being creeped out. A lot of women will be into it if you just tell them you have a fetish instead of trying to pretend you're more comfortable nude.