CFNM Village Discussion Forum

Hello

I love the idea of CFNM because it gives all the power to women. I would love them to use that power to humiliate me. The power exchange is what excites me.

I do a lot of hiking and one of my fantasies is to be stripped and tied to a tree, to be abused by an aggressive group of women. Eventually they straddle me as I lay on the ground. One by one they piss on me aiming for my face and laughing. Occasionally they pry my mouth open with their toes and fill me up. Some lean close to my mouth and spit on my tongue.

If I'm lucky they allow me to lick up and stray drops on their thighs. Then they lead my by my dick out of the woods until we reach the main trail where I am allowed to get dressed.

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I am a fan of CFNM. I find it incredibly erotic. I am also shy so getting naked in front of women in public would be a real rush. I hope to get out on the beach this summer.

Honestly I just like cfnm because I was put in a a situation where I was embarassed and now im turned on by it lmao

Long time lurker from back on the old site/forum. Been a fan of CFNM since probably when I hit puberty. I don’t remember how even stumbled across the acronym or the site but it certainly helped me hone in on what it was I enjoyed and what appealed to me. I guess for me, what I enjoy most is the arousal and enjoyment of the women, whether it be inhibitions running wild with male strippers, or the deviant smile of a woman at the site of an embarrassed naked man.

I always like reading cfnm porn because i get excited thinking about being humiliated by others for being naked and not being able to do anything about it, while I get nothing in return but shame.

I like CFNM because I get a boyish thrill from being naked in front of females. I like the attention and the feeling of embarrassment and the fact that I can't hide my arousal. I like casual scenarios more than hardcore humiliation. My kind of CFNM is about giving women a feeling of power and making them smile. I remember reading about CFNM online when I was starting puberty and feeling very weird about it but also being inexplicably drawn to it.

Hello
When men and women witness different body structures, the reaction is interesting.

Hello. The rules are very restrictive for new members.

They are. We have to prove ourselves to become real...uh, members. So why do you like cfnm?

Hi Iren here I love the female reactions and the general switch in power dynamics. It is different and interesting.

I wanna get access

I'm not really new, you know. I was a member in the old VS4W site too. But I never contributed or said anything, and apparently the management doesn't like that.

I wish they would let lurkers lurk. It's interesting to read other people's thoughts. Some of us enjoy doing just that, that doesn't mean we aren't real!

As to why I like CFNM - primarily I think it is the power dynamic, as others here have said. That said, I'm not interested in BDSM or extreme Femdom and such things. I wish I could explain more.

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Hi! I'm Sam. My first "CFNM" experience was actually more of a "NMNF" experience when I was young, but I was far more into the showing part than I was into the watching part. Here's the story:

When I was young I really had the hots for my one year older female cousin. She was gorgeous and we were sort of like best friends. Even at that age I knew I very much wanted to show her my dick. I suggested a game of "I'll show you mine, you show me yours." Much to my joy, she very happily agreed!

I remember taking down my pants, already excited and hard, and hearing her say, "OMG, it's so big!" That only turned me on more, of course! Then she also took down her pants, showing me her beautiful pussy. We only looked at each other for just a couple of minutes or so, that first time.

The next time we hung out, as soon as we had the chance, we played this wonderful game again. This time I asked her if she wanted to see me cum. Again, she readily agreed. So there I was, looking at my beautiful cousin's beautiful pussy, as I stroked my dick for her. I came FAST and I came a LOT! Again, she gave the "OMG!" and was completely fascinated.

From that point onward, we always "fooled around" in some fashion, every time we met. I lost count of the times she watched or even helped me cum. She was far more into watching/helping me cum than in showing, and I was far more into showing/cumming for her than I was into seeing her. (But I DID like seeing her too!) She would kiss me, lick me, suck me, and touch me. We never fucked, but she did just about everything else a female could do to make a guy cum.

We're older now, both married, and don't really fool around like that any more. But one time, just a couple of years ago, when we happened to be alone in the kitchen at a family party, she whispered in my ear, "Remember when we played 'You show me yours, I'll show you mine?'" I got instantly excited, and said "Yeah, if you ever want to do that again, I'm up for it," and took her hand and put it on my dick, outside my pants. All she did was smile as she left the room, but that smile was priceless!

Now, after writing this, I am thinking of trying to rekindle this with her if possible!

Of course, she wasn't the only CFNM (or NFNM, as often happened) I had, but she was the most long-lasting. Back in the days of the Craigslist Personals, I used to put out all sorts of ads for CFNM situations. I was pretty creative in my ads, and had lots of success. I'll post about some of these in the future.

It's alright. My question was answered and the discussion contributed to. I don't want to see any arguments erupting.



Hi Sam. That's a great story, thank you for sharing. Definitely interested to hear more stories from you.

Oh, wow. I didn't expect such a hostile response. (According to your signature, green color means a moderator warning?)

I am grateful to Brad for hosting this forum, and for inventing the very concept of CFNM, in cyberspace. (It's always existed in many of our minds, before cyberspace itself existed.) As I said above, I have followed this site and the old vs4w site before, with great enthusiasm. I was merely offering what I thought was constructive criticism, about the rules being rather intimidating for new users. I certainly did not expect a mod warning for that. I assure you, I am only trying to be helpfu, not snarky. Maybe something is being lost in translation, since I am not a native English speaker.

Regards,
R.

Okay, here's a win from one of my CL posts:

I placed an ad for a "Naked Handyman." Basically I offered to do all sorts of jobs for women, for free, provided I work in the nude, saying I just really liked being naked in front of women. I got all sorts of replies and real life interactions as a result.

I remember this one woman that I visited once. She wanted me to move some furniture, but she ACTUALLY wanted a naked guy at her disposal, lol.

I came over, stripped completely naked, and helped her move a dresser or something. I also think she had me wash some dishes, now that I am thinking about it. I would occasionally pause to "fluff up" a bit while she watched.

I didn't put this is the ad, but whenever I got a response I would also tell them that my only request would be that I would be allowed to have an orgasm before I left, while they watched of course. I also told them that I could give myself the orgasm, and that there was no need to touch me at all if they didn't want to.

So, after the work was over, I sat on her couch, and slowly stroked my dick for her. At this point she put on a bit of an unexpected striptease for me, eventually getting down to just wearing panties, which she never removed. Nice, big firm tits, which I was not allowed to touch, but very much enjoyed seeing!

She wouldn't touch me at all, but I didn't care. I was just happy to be there stroking away for this practically naked woman. I always make a point in such situations to sort of "ham it up" and moan a bit in pleasure while stroking, to really add to the eroticism of it. I also take my time, stopping before cumming, and really edging, telling them how horny I am, how I don't want to cum yet because I want to really prolong the pleasure, etc. Finally, I couldn't hold back any more, and shot my cum all over my stomach and chest, with my legs spread wide, moaning in complete ecstasy.

I could tell that she really loved the feeling of being part of the "inspiration" for my orgasm, and the feeling of being completely in control of me, both as I worked for her, and also as I jerked for her. Total win-win for each of us.

Got horny just remembering and writing this!

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Great story, you have had a lot of success in the world of CFNM it seems. I tend to think that we all have a bit of CFNM in us and that a lot of people don't realize it until given the opportunity to experience it. That woman may not have previously thought about having a naked man help her out but she clearly jumped at the chance when given the opportunity.

Oh OK, thank you for explaining the official stance. Happy CFNMing!

Regards,
R.