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Author:  Maxi Gee [ Mon Mar 09, 2020 4:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Newbies - Say Hello! And Why Do You Like CFNM??

Hi Folks, I miss this forum so much....couldn't stay away any longer and am happy to work my way back in. Here's hoping this is the right place to start..

It is still a mystery to me why I like CFNM so much. I just do. A lot, and it takes up a lot of my time. I've searched for answers, thinking it might be a problem, but in my late 20's found relief when a therapist told me that it was ok - so long as it is safe for both parties and legal. So, no problem, now I enjoy it as a hobby and am ready to contribute to the community.

I had a thing for CFNM from as young as 14-15 when I would flash the girls dropping milk off at my house, they seemed to like it. I ran with window flashing for years until I discovered clothing optional beaches; here is my CFNM home, and where I flash regularly. The thing is, I have never had a bad experience as an exhibitionist or a voyeur. I think it is because I am careful, respectful, and after all these years, well rehearsed.

As an exhibitionist, I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw my first Loverboys USA clip. Blew my mind. Wow. Lucky, lucky bastards. I still watch them regularly. Then came Partyhardcore and similar ones with plants. AllthingsCFNM, Superfluous' blog was excellent, as this was and am sure is. These days I follow "paint n sip", or "exotic paintings", or plough through the gay stuff to find CFNM strippers with hard on's, which, there still isn't enough of. Thing is, I loose track of where I have been and don't like to keep a log on my own computer, that why I would like to come back here, it is a good way to share the gold we have mined....anyway, that search continues.

I always wanted to post, and am sure in my countless hours ploughing through the net, I can contribute something here. Also, I have countless great stories of wanking off to groups of girls at the beach.

Thanks for your consideration. MaxiG

Author:  aru2020 [ Mon Mar 09, 2020 12:57 pm ]
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Hello everyone! I'm a non English speaker. Well, I have liked Cfnm for several years now. I hope to become a full member soon.

Author:  Peter Stillman [ Tue Mar 10, 2020 3:54 am ]
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Hi there everyone,

Peter here. I'm of classical stock really.

A few years ago I decided to test my mettle in one of the former colonies in Asia. For various reasons, I won't specify which one. Regardless, I took to my new life quite well. Work was well paid, not too stressful. My apartment overlooked the park and I had my laundry dry-pressed for me weekly for a steal. I soon managed to situate myself against a respectable backdrop of moneyed associates. Among them, a one, what shall we call him? Charles; yes, let's settle on Charles. An old favourite, really, Charles. Old money, Cambridge in the 80s, financier since the early noughties. Slightly meaty, now, that same Charles. But alas! How we do age.

Months pass, I become bored at work, mergers, acquisitions, government-stabilized markets, etc.; but meanwhile I become engaged in a relationship with a local. Oh nothing too scandalous! The times have changed. Such things are common. She really was quite charming. Sleek black ponytail pinned back, that kind of international school English; a grammar inflected by one too many languages, perhaps; a sense of self failing to cohere from exposure to too many pop cultures. American, Korean, British, Singaporean. Her bloodline is an ode to globalization. Let's call her Cindy.

Everything is going well. I make subtle allusions to the view from my apartment. One indiscretion follows another and eventually she takes in the shape of the trees from the 10th floor view. Ah! to be young again.

I try my subtleties of seduction. Sincere, you would have to say. Perhaps a little too rashly, I loosen my belt buckle over a glass of wine. Too quick, too sudden. She has work appointments, emails; must be going anon, directly, etc.

I'm fairly distraught. Despair not Pete old boy!

Over a rather boozy brunch the next day, I tell Charles all about it. Oh they can be coy little devils out here, he says. But the devil is in the details, he continues.

Whether it is the Prosecco or my own agitated state of mind, I have no idea what he is talking about. Oh! Dear Charles. How you could be so indirect. So cryptic, so concealed.

I palm a strand of hair from my forehead. I express my vexation at the whole wretched state of affairs.

Charles studies my exasperation. I have just the thing for it, he says.

Such a malignant gleam I have not seen in the eyes of man since.

We split the bill. Take a taxi downtown.

A gentlemen's parlor he calls it. Those of you who've managed to take in the former colonies will know all about them. A delightful young woman leads me through a series of double doors and down a hallway with a view of the streets below. She hands me a robe, instructs me by way of sign language to undress. Finally she hands me a pair of disposable shorts. Blue, paper-thin. Her painted nails catch the fluorescent sheen of the lights overhead.

I disrobe as instructed, I lie face down on the table. And I wait.

Things go quite smoothly. I mean, she is a complete professional. Nothing beyond the boundaries of decent taste. Oil on the back, deep tissue along the legs. I ease myself into a world of pure sensation undisturbed by worries about next week's markets.

Then it happens, gradually, mind you. She pulls shorts an inch lower, then another inch. By Jove! I think. My buttocks must fairly well be completely exposed. I feel my pulse in my throat.

Is this, eh, normal procedure? I ask.

My voice fairly breaks.

She assures me that this is just a part of the massage. I manage to convince myself of our joint innocence. I ease into it.

I trust you'll understand my predicament. Let's say I begin to feel rather excited. Then the unimaginable happens. My dear innocent masseuse decides it wise to slip my under-garments off completely.

I lift my head from the table, turn drowsily to the side.

Really, now? I say.

I can barely form a full sentence. My dear, the shame! the shame!

She proceeds to slip the shorts until they are scrunched around my knees. She proceeds to massage my inner thighs.

Yes, she says. Stress is here.

I feel as though I am about to faint. I rehearse various excuses. I have a meeting! I have to see a friend of a friend of a ... then she decides it is time to turn me over. I comply. Wretched man that I am.

She positions herself between my legs, climbs aboard the table. Finally, she peels the crumpled shorts from my knees.

What follows is marvelous, really. But only in hindsight. For the next hour she rubs her palms into the meat around my hips. And I naked as the day I fell to earth! I am fairly bouncing off my own stomach! Good old captain Pete is rock hard! What a sight. With one hand she starts to scratch my belly button with her nails.

Then she stares at Captain Pete, tells me that I am quite a bad boy to let her proceed with all these indiscretions. -- But she never, no. Not quite, you see. Not quite.

Let's just say she understood the maintenance of one last boundary would save us both from disgrace.

She finishes with a head massage. Directs me towards a shower. I breathe, release myself. I expect her to leave me be by the shower. What happens instead is another verse to my ode to indiscretion. She watches me shower! For a full ten minutes. I rinse the oil from my hips. Then she says: no! Rinse there! She points at good old Captain Pete. I've tried to conceal him. Oh dear. Oh death!

Finally, she leaves me shower alone. I nearly faint again with the recollection of all that I've experienced in an afternoon.

My word.

I wait for Charles at reception. An hour passes. He never shows. I reach for my wallet, mildly annoyed that I'll presumably have to pick up his side of the bill as well. As I reach into my jacket pocket, the receptionist waves me off.

Your friend, she smiles. Pay already.

A week later, I'm back at my apartment with Cindy. We sit, overlooking the park. She leans into me so that I can smell her shampoo. Roses, perhaps. She places her hand on my thigh. All I can think about, however, is my time with Charles at the gentlemen's parlor.

A week later she breaks it off with me in a Sushi bar. Really, some people have no sense of occasion.

Anyhow, all of that was many years ago now. I've since left the colonies behind. And now I'm here, hoping to swap tales of indiscretions. My goodness! the joy, the fear.

-- Stillman.

Author:  asterion [ Tue Mar 10, 2020 7:40 am ]
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hi everyone,

I'd glad to see this forum is alive and well :) cfnm is a wonderful step in the direction of gender equality, and it can be a lot of fun!

Guy

Author:  morboesclavo [ Wed Mar 11, 2020 2:20 am ]
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Hi, everyone.
This is morboesclavo. I´m glad to be here. I´ve just come.
And about: Why am i CFNM lover?, my answer is clear: Are you kidding me, folk?
CFNM is the place.
Thanks at all!!!

Author:  MacEire [ Wed Mar 11, 2020 3:46 pm ]
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Hi,

Great to be here. Been a “fan” of cfnm for years, I guess I enjoy the role reversal of it all compared to most nudity seen in the mainstream.

Author:  bigstroker666 [ Sat Mar 14, 2020 12:06 pm ]
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Time to intro myself I suppose! Why do I like cfnm? Can't really explain,I just do!...but I found this place when I was searching for pics of actress Andi Matichak and saw a pic of her on a beach with 2 naked dudes behind her. :mrgreen: That's what led me here! Love that she was in that situation.

Author:  hijinks [ Sun Mar 15, 2020 5:05 am ]
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Hello you all!

I'm a CFNM lover. What I like most about CFNM are embarrassing situations with dominant women.

Just discovered this forum from Lawless-Loki profile on DevianArt.

See you!

Author:  johny333 [ Sun Mar 15, 2020 9:05 am ]
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Hi everybody,

why i like cfnm - i don't really know for sure. Situations when the women is having control is turning me on, but only in the cfnm style, friendish, or just fun situation including male nudity is what makes me cfnm lover. The BDSM stuff etc. that goes way forward beyond my liking.
Being naked amongst women, or woman is itself very nice experience, but it's way better when the women takes some action toward naked guy.

It is definetely tough question that even may include some philosophical concepts about role of man and women and their submission :D

Author:  SpikeFL [ Sun Mar 15, 2020 1:11 pm ]
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Hi all - Spike here from Florida. As a gay man, I've always been a little mystified as to the appeal CFNM has for me. I suppose there's the obvious - the male nudity. Beyond that, I think it's the concept: the inherent inequality involved, and turning the tables from the traditional society norm of objectifying women. In the past, I'd been a lurker for some time here because I didn't think I really had anything to contribute that hadn't already been posted. But I seem to be drawn back to the site, so I'll see what I can do to add interesting posts and contribute to the site. Many thanks.

Author:  sub_pet [ Mon Mar 16, 2020 2:43 am ]
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Hello to everyone from London UK.
My first experience was with a ex-girlfriend that removed my clothes at a fetish event, teased me to an erection and invited a trio of curious women to watch us, while she masturbated me and eventually ordered me to finish myself off in front of the trio.

Was a great experience and got me into CFNM. We did something similar a few more times before breaking up and now I'm looking forward to more of that.

Author:  U1999 [ Mon Mar 16, 2020 4:08 am ]
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Sorry for making a new topic by mistake.

I came from Japan/
I can process images to make collages.
https://bbs6-imgs.fc2.com//bbs/img/_439 ... 507143.jpg

Author:  qwertyX [ Wed Mar 18, 2020 8:23 am ]
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Hey eveyone,

Greetings from a quarantined country :D

Not really sure why I like CFNM, I arrived at it some years ago and never really left. Maybe it's because it's this risqué thing that I would like to experience but never really did.. who knows :D

Author:  JayK [ Wed Mar 18, 2020 10:13 am ]
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Hi all,

I used to read and enjoy the old S4W site but somewhere along the way disconnected and forgot about it. Nice to find it still survives in a way.

I stumbled into CFNM back in high school, when I real good female friend of mine (not a "girlfriend" per se) asked me to stop by her house one day to help he with something after school. I figured it was with her stereo or something, but when I got there and she fumbled around for the words and all, she flat out asked me if she could see my penis! I was shocked being a good kid and all - I had no sex experience at all other than with my hand. After being stunned and all, I somehow said "OK". Of course, I asked her to get naked as well but she somehow convinced me that both of us being naked at the same time was a bad idea. So she ended up checking me out. I was hard as a rock. Over the years I've thought about that day over and over and over.

Since then, the thought of a woman looking at a cock has always been something that I've loved to see.

Author:  dna2z [ Thu Mar 19, 2020 3:03 pm ]
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Hi there. Happened upon the forum. Very curious.

Author:  freddz [ Fri Mar 20, 2020 4:17 am ]
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Hello everyone, as long as i remember i've liked CFNM. I find it exciting, but haven't lived it out too much, so i hope to find some inspiration here. :D

Author:  8cecco8 [ Sat Mar 21, 2020 11:18 am ]
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Hi all!
I have liked CFNM for a long time. Being naked in front of clothed women is exciting!
I like reading about CFNM experiences of other men or seeing pictures of CFNM situation.
I would like to go to a CFNM party - but my wife is not sure whether she wants it or not.

Author:  Gislain [ Sun Mar 22, 2020 2:30 am ]
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Hello everyone since my experience at the hospital being naked in front of a nurse that’s when I became interested in the CFNM before I didn’t know it existed. I never practiced CFNM maybe one day I’d make the first move. I like the CFNM to see the reaction of men getting undressed and also that of women.

Author:  LymanZergaTheDigger [ Sun Mar 22, 2020 8:17 pm ]
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Hello from Brazil. I don't know why but this is my biggest kink since I discovered myself sexually.

Author:  djmeowth [ Mon Mar 23, 2020 5:22 pm ]
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Hey all. I've been a huge fan of CFNM my whole life.

Mainly I like real scenarios. Like, *real* scenarios. Staged stuff can be fine sometimes but I love the real stuff - though it can be very hard to find.

My favorite kinds of content are videos of hen parties and male stripper shows. I remember about a decade ago there was a lot of convincingly authentic stuff up on tube sites, from Loverboys and a couple of small black male stripper sites like 'itsonvideos'. Unfortunately, in recent years a lot of these videos have disappeared off tube sites, and it seems like 95% of any male stripper content is staged stuff like Dancing Bear and Party Hardcore.

I'm hoping to find some of those old videos here! And contribute any I come across, of course.

Other things I like are massage parlor and waxing videos.

I'll share what I have in the video thread, though I don't know if I'll have anything that long-timers here haven't seen before.

Thanks for this awesome forum!

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