jack993 wrote:
Hi,
So, I found this really fun video on Instagram of what seems like a birthday party for a grandmother. The guests (all women) present her with this penis cake and when she fondles the head it squirts out cream. It's a short, fun little video.
I'm wondering if this was worth sharing here in the Real Life, Unstaged CFNM Photos & Videos section. Also, I looked through the video posting rules and Instagram isn't listed as streaming site. So, should I download the video and reupload it to DailyMotion or Vimeo or is the Instagram link okay?
I'm sorry if any of these are stupid questions or if this isn't the right place to ask. I want to start contributing here and I want to make sure I don't make any mistakes that get me banned or anything.
Welcome to the Village, Jack993. You are obviously doing the right thing, reading the rules and trying to comply with them is a good way to start.
Of course we have rules here for a reason, but we moderators prefer to help people to learn the rules if they are obviously trying to do the right thing rather than punish or ban them.
Of course, if a new poster continues to ignore our advice when we try to help them, they will not last very long.
The reason we have a preferred list for hosting sites is that many sites add malicious links and browser redirects when you download them. We try to keep the site as safe as possible for our members. Unfortunately over the past couple of years "safe hosting sites" are becoming rarer and rarer. Hosting sites now add malicious links seemingly at random and remove them in a similar pattern. You may find a link to the best piece of CFNM in history and determine that it is clean, then post it in the Village only to have the hosting site add malicious software to it half an hour later.
Only using sites on the preferred list does not guarantee that this will not happen any more, BUT it does show the moderation team that you have tried to obey the rules and we are more likely to decide that it was not your fault. Similarly, if you post a link that later contains a malicious browser redirector and it is not on the list, if it is the first time, you will likely get a warning. If you have a history of this chances are that the next time your little red arse comes in contact with the ground it will be outside the Village walls - permanently.
In summary, we try to maintain a flexible and friendly environment in the Village but there are lines that you cross at your peril. There are links to Instagram on the forum and I cannot remember seeing many problems with it. Personally, I woud stick tothe preferred list until you have a good posting history before getting too adventurous, just in case.