betsyb wrote:
Due to registration problems I’m back under a new name, but I’m still Betsy, RN
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My first ‘real’ cfnm experience occurred while I volunteered at a nursing home. It was a popular community service avenue for teen girl to help at the hospitals. We would help feed the residents (not patients), bring them magazines, just chat, push the wheelchairs, help with games. As the facility was understaffed, I was pressed into assisting the aides, helping move patients in and out of bed or chairs, even in their rooms. By and by I was helping change clothes, gowns, and..yuck…diapers. Actually one can get used to almost anything after a while. I do admit that adult dirty diapers is the worst, & I never fully accustomed myself to those. After a couple weeks I was more enthusiastic about being an acting aide, at just fifteen, doing adult things. To the other aides their jobs seemed to be low level toil, and they were amused at my young energy. So they decided to pull a prank on me.
One of the rehabilitation, rather than long term, residents was a forty year old man who had a brain injury from an auto accident. He was actually getting better, and was receiving physical therapy to recover his strength. He was six feet and about 160 pounds, down from 200 pounds. He was large enough so he needed two aides to lift and help him move. I was acquainted with he and his wife from dinners. His speech was barely returning. An aide asked me to help change his wet diaper, a routine task, but I had never helped with his diaper. We went to the bathroom, stood him up next to the toilet and took off the diaper. This man was huge, like what you see in the porn movies! Eight inches at least, soft. She wet a towel, and sponged him off, then had ME dry him. She ‘forgot’ the dry diaper, so while she went to fetch one she casually asked me to have him try to pee in the toilet. All I had to do was to point his penis down so he wouldn’t spray all over. I’d helped my brother pee many times, but his penis was two inches and skinny. I’d helped with old men; they have shriveled penises. While he held onto the rails with both hands I held his penis, which was partially erect from the handling toward the water. He soon became fully erected. My eyes popped out. I didn’t know men hardly ever peed with an erection. I was worried because I couldn’t push it down far enough toward the water with both hands. I used tampons; I thought about something like this going inside. What kind woman was his wife to have sex with…this? I thought if he had an erection, what would it look like in his pants?
The aide left me there forever. She could have gone to the drug store and back. She was very casual when she returned, smirking when she saw he still had an erection. We put the diaper back on, and had him sit back down in the wheel chair.
When we came out his wife was still waiting. She knew I’d been in there alone with him. She said, “Frank, tell Betsy thank you for helping.” He slowly said, “Thank you Betsy.”
I really felt good that both of them had expressed their appreciation to me. It’s one of those very warm moments in life. People know you’ve done something nice for them, and they are grateful. It was the moment I decided to be a nurse.
Later at break time, the other women who were in on this laughed at the aide recounting the expressions on my face. They were all surprised when I told them how I felt about the family’s gratitude.
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