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PostPosted: Tue May 26, 2020 12:56 am 
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Before going in, my English counterpart, slipped out of everything. He did it without thinking of it, almost as if it were natural. Back then, the English were far less prudish than us Americans.


So the same as now? :oops:

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PostPosted: Tue May 26, 2020 9:33 am 
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So the same as now?:)

LOL. very much so:) I would probably say more so.


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Due to registration problems I’m back under a new name, but I’m still Betsy, RN

I grew up with mom, dad and my 2 year younger brother. I was always big sister, helping him bathe, dress. Seeing him naked wasn’t anything out of the ordinary at a young age. He had a weak bladder; in the car on trips I often helped him pee in a bottle we used as a urinal, up to his age 12.

My first ‘real’ cfnm experience occurred while I volunteered at a nursing home. It was a popular community service avenue for teen girl to help at the hospitals. We would help feed the residents (not patients), bring them magazines, just chat, push the wheelchairs, help with games. As the facility was understaffed, I was pressed into assisting the aides, helping move patients in and out of bed or chairs, even in their rooms. By and by I was helping change clothes, gowns, and..yuck…diapers. Actually one can get used to almost anything after a while. I do admit that adult dirty diapers is the worst, & I never fully accustomed myself to those. After a couple weeks I was more enthusiastic about being an acting aide, at just fifteen, doing adult things. To the other aides their jobs seemed to be low level toil, and they were amused at my young energy. So they decided to pull a prank on me.

One of the rehabilitation, rather than long term, residents was a forty year old man who had a brain injury from an auto accident. He was actually getting better, and was receiving physical therapy to recover his strength. He was six feet and about 160 pounds, down from 200 pounds. He was large enough so he needed two aides to lift and help him move. I was acquainted with he and his wife from dinners. His speech was barely returning. An aide asked me to help change his wet diaper, a routine task, but I had never helped with his diaper. We went to the bathroom, stood him up next to the toilet and took off the diaper. This man was huge, like what you see in the porn movies! Eight inches at least, soft. She wet a towel, and sponged him off, then had ME dry him. She ‘forgot’ the dry diaper, so while she went to fetch one she casually asked me to have him try to pee in the toilet. All I had to do was to point his penis down so he wouldn’t spray all over. I’d helped my brother pee many times, but his penis was two inches and skinny. I’d helped with old men; they have shriveled penises. While he held onto the rails with both hands I held his penis, which was partially erect from the handling toward the water. He soon became fully erected. My eyes popped out. I didn’t know men hardly ever peed with an erection. I was worried because I couldn’t push it down far enough toward the water with both hands. I used tampons; I thought about something like this going inside. What kind woman was his wife to have sex with…this? I thought if he had an erection, what would it look like in his pants?
The aide left me there forever. She could have gone to the drug store and back. She was very casual when she returned, smirking when she saw he still had an erection. We put the diaper back on, and had him sit back down in the wheel chair.
When we came out his wife was still waiting. She knew I’d been in there alone with him. She said, “Frank, tell Betsy thank you for helping.” He slowly said, “Thank you Betsy.”
I really felt good that both of them had expressed their appreciation to me. It’s one of those very warm moments in life. People know you’ve done something nice for them, and they are grateful. It was the moment I decided to be a nurse.
Later at break time, the other women who were in on this laughed at the aide recounting the expressions on my face. They were all surprised when I told them how I felt about the family’s gratitude.


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Due to registration problems I’m back under a new name, but I’m still Betsy, RN

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My first ‘real’ cfnm experience occurred while I volunteered at a nursing home. It was a popular community service avenue for teen girl to help at the hospitals. We would help feed the residents (not patients), bring them magazines, just chat, push the wheelchairs, help with games. As the facility was understaffed, I was pressed into assisting the aides, helping move patients in and out of bed or chairs, even in their rooms. By and by I was helping change clothes, gowns, and..yuck…diapers. Actually one can get used to almost anything after a while. I do admit that adult dirty diapers is the worst, & I never fully accustomed myself to those. After a couple weeks I was more enthusiastic about being an acting aide, at just fifteen, doing adult things. To the other aides their jobs seemed to be low level toil, and they were amused at my young energy. So they decided to pull a prank on me.

One of the rehabilitation, rather than long term, residents was a forty year old man who had a brain injury from an auto accident. He was actually getting better, and was receiving physical therapy to recover his strength. He was six feet and about 160 pounds, down from 200 pounds. He was large enough so he needed two aides to lift and help him move. I was acquainted with he and his wife from dinners. His speech was barely returning. An aide asked me to help change his wet diaper, a routine task, but I had never helped with his diaper. We went to the bathroom, stood him up next to the toilet and took off the diaper. This man was huge, like what you see in the porn movies! Eight inches at least, soft. She wet a towel, and sponged him off, then had ME dry him. She ‘forgot’ the dry diaper, so while she went to fetch one she casually asked me to have him try to pee in the toilet. All I had to do was to point his penis down so he wouldn’t spray all over. I’d helped my brother pee many times, but his penis was two inches and skinny. I’d helped with old men; they have shriveled penises. While he held onto the rails with both hands I held his penis, which was partially erect from the handling toward the water. He soon became fully erected. My eyes popped out. I didn’t know men hardly ever peed with an erection. I was worried because I couldn’t push it down far enough toward the water with both hands. I used tampons; I thought about something like this going inside. What kind woman was his wife to have sex with…this? I thought if he had an erection, what would it look like in his pants?
The aide left me there forever. She could have gone to the drug store and back. She was very casual when she returned, smirking when she saw he still had an erection. We put the diaper back on, and had him sit back down in the wheel chair.
When we came out his wife was still waiting. She knew I’d been in there alone with him. She said, “Frank, tell Betsy thank you for helping.” He slowly said, “Thank you Betsy.”
I really felt good that both of them had expressed their appreciation to me. It’s one of those very warm moments in life. People know you’ve done something nice for them, and they are grateful. It was the moment I decided to be a nurse.
Later at break time, the other women who were in on this laughed at the aide recounting the expressions on my face. They were all surprised when I told them how I felt about the family’s gratitude.


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My first experience was when I was 14 years old. I was strictly an observer.

It occurred when my parents took me on a Caribbean cruise. One of the shore excursions that we took was a river-rafting trip in Jamaica on wooden rafts. You sat on seats on the raft while a native guide used a pole to steer you down the river. Both at the boarding point and down the course of the river a number of black children were either swimming/standing in the water or on shore.

All of the boys were naked, or at least stripped naked to enter the water.

I'm somewhat hard-pressed to recall exactly what the girls wore, but I think it was in the way of street clothing -- shirt and shorts -- not swimsuits.


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Browsing through different genre of porn, and I can't explain the kind of captivity I was in when I first watched CFNM porn. Being a gay man, I never thought the presence of women in porn can be exciting, but my eyes were wide open taking in what was happening in there - the sheer embarrassment from being vulnerable and the helplessness the men portrayed despite of their masculinity. For me, I admire male form and seeing how they're so ashamed of something beautiful about them is very intriguing. It's a very different experience if the guy was cocky and proud of his nudity in crowd - it feels rather detached. It's easier to empathize them when they're vulnerable, because that's how I'd feel if I'm put on the spot. Watching CFNM puts me in the excitement of being bare and vulnerable through the nude actors.


Totally resonate with this. Also a huge turn on!


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For me, it was swimming. I first started noticing boys wore a lot less than girls when I was twelve. I would talk to my crush, knowing I was just wearing a speedo, and the only things hidden from her were my dick and balls. We would talk a lot, and I always got a thrill out of it.


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During the summer before college, I and a few other friends went to a little cottage. It wasn't a crazy party atmosphere or anything, we were close though. The shower connected to the room where we all slept. One day while showering I heard laughing, and when I was done, I noticed the door was open a crack. I don't know if the two were connected but I don't remember leaving the door open. I don't remember the conversation or atmosphere of the room after got dressed and joined them again, so I was either naive or the events were unconnected. This is the closest experience I have, sadly.


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I grew up in an extremely conservative community. Right before college we had a party where the parents were gone with one other guy and three girls. After watching a movie that included a very PG skinny dipping scene one of the girls suggested that we should get naked. To prevent anything sexual from happening the boys would go first then after the girls had a good look would get dressed and they would strip down. After a bit of prodding me and the other guy agreed and stripped to nothing and set a timer for when we would switch. What got me in particular was the sad sound one of the girls made when the timer rang. She wanted us to stay naked! We got dressed and the girls got down to bra and panties but chickened out. Still a turn on that they all got to see me but I never got to see any of them.


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In 2000, I passed the military medical commission. I had to take off my underpants in front of a doctor (man) and a nurse (woman). There were two more naked guys in the cab besides me. Cowards had to be removed in the corridor. The rest of the doctors I went in underpants. It was in Russia.


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I grew up in an extremely conservative community. Right before college we had a party where the parents were gone with one other guy and three girls. After watching a movie that included a very PG skinny dipping scene one of the girls suggested that we should get naked. To prevent anything sexual from happening the boys would go first then after the girls had a good look would get dressed and they would strip down. After a bit of prodding me and the other guy agreed and stripped to nothing and set a timer for when we would switch. What got me in particular was the sad sound one of the girls made when the timer rang. She wanted us to stay naked! We got dressed and the girls got down to bra and panties but chickened out. Still a turn on that they all got to see me but I never got to see any of them.


Girls...... Not to be trusted :lol:

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hi im new on this forum im girl i need shear some video but i cant he say You are not authorised to read this forum.

plz help me :|


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My first true experience;
I was about 9 yrs of age and at a day camp. We all went swimming, then back to locker rooms to change.
There maybe 4 of us boys in the changing area when I got there. I found a corner and took of my bathing suit , before I could get to my bag with towel and short/t shirt etc- A pretty teenage counselor came in with a 4 yr old boy ( to dress him), She came near me and pointed at my naked front - said I see you- little boy. then she proceeded to change the little boy she came in and left.
A bit later in the morning, we were walking to a dinning hall, the same counselor - walked by me - looked down at me and said: I saw you. I way that embarrassed me.

But actually I then liked the feeling of this dressed female girl (teenage) had took a good look at me when I was nude.
Then I would see her at the day camp.
This started my enjoyment of CFNM . I am now in 50's and still love CFNM/

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CNA training involves some anatomy, physiology, diseases, but is long on procedures. We learn to take care of tubes, wires, and things that attach to the patients. In my class were some rookie girls (almost all under 25). We got to the bathing and showering & the ‘seeing the guy naked’ anxieties appeared. Almost all women and girls are disgusted or afraid of flashers. Would you men like it if another man pulled out his junk as you passed by? The reaction of women seeing a naked guy is that he’s aroused. The instructor desired to reassure the naïve girls. ‘In this situation, you have the uniform & power while the naked man is vulnerable, probably embarrassed, and ashamed. He has likely been sick for a while; he’s had to do what women nurses tell him. You’re the woman with the uniform in authority.’ No one was aware of the CFNM term but this is one of the few times men are stark naked. Of course it isn’t always that way. There are a few misbehaving men (probably one of readers of this post). But mostly it’s true.
We were taught to do our best at covering the genitals, and to minimize the exposure time.


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I have never had a true cfnm experience. The closest was strip poker during work lunch hour while the boss was away. Of course everyone chickens out after the shoes are off haha! Maybe this should be a post for the missed opportunities discussion!


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My first experience was very simple and not exciting. The summer I was 9, our family went to Baltic Sea. The beaches spread to many-many kilometers were very deserted at that time. Bur about each km there were stalls for changing to and from swim-suites. They were open from beneath, so when an adult stood inside his/her legs were visible a little above knees. Here the story begin. Next to us another family rented a house. They had a son about my age (half a year older, 10), very nice and very shy. And when he used the stalls, changing his trunks, his boy’s parts was totally visible! But standing inside the narrow space he did not notice that. I could see the procedure up to 10 times per day for two weeks, although not allways from the best angles, because his mother insisted on changing wet pants before and after each swim. Myself, I exchanged suites using a towel. Once when it was time to swim (and to exchange) there were no stall around, and his mother suggested to him just drop his dry pants and put the wen on. He was terrified and refused. Then she suggested to use a towel and pointer at me. He again refused and said that it is too embarrassing. Then his mother got angry said that it is totally illogical not to be embarrassed using that stalls, that allows every girl see his pee-pee (as she said) and be ashamed to use the towel. He became red. After that he never used that stalls. Later he asked me if I really had seen his boyhood, and I said yes, every time (not actually true). That was the first time. At least the first time I paid attention to.


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My first experience was very simple and not exciting. The summer I was 9, our family went to Baltic Sea. The beaches spread to many-many kilometers were very deserted at that time. Bur about each km there were stalls for changing to and from swim-suites. They were open from beneath, so when an adult stood inside his/her legs were visible a little above knees. Here the story begin. Next to us another family rented a house. They had a son about my age (half a year older, 10), very nice and very shy. And when he used the stalls, changing his trunks, his boy’s parts was totally visible! But standing inside the narrow space he did not notice that. I could see the procedure up to 10 times per day for two weeks, although not allways from the best angles, because his mother insisted on changing wet pants before and after each swim. Myself, I exchanged suites using a towel. Once when it was time to swim (and to exchange) there were no stall around, and his mother suggested to him just drop his dry pants and put the wen on. He was terrified and refused. Then she suggested to use a towel and pointer at me. He again refused and said that it is too embarrassing. Then his mother got angry said that it is totally illogical not to be embarrassed using that stalls, that allows every girl see his pee-pee (as she said) and be ashamed to use the towel. He became red. After that he never used that stalls. Later he asked me if I really had seen his boyhood, and I said yes, every time (not actually true). That was the first time. At least the first time I paid attention to.


Did you enjoy seeing his penis? Could you see anyone else in those stalls?


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The reaction of women seeing a naked guy is that he’s aroused.

God, I hope I never end up in a nursing home, though the idea of the woman in power has always fascinated me. I've been in situations where the dressed lady knows that she has the power over my nakedness and it is pretty intoxicating. Most of the time, these were situations where a camera was involved and she was the one driving the camera while I was the one in the viewfinder. She was the director and I was the directed and, once the lady can get used to that, it is something excessively addicting for both of us. One woman who began as very nervous and shy, initially scared about what me as the naked man in front of her and the lens would want to do on her, found something within her and ended up being an aggressive xxx filmmaker/photographer who was not afraid of what I would do for her and our shoots became very uninhibited with her dressed and me naked. She could not get enough of it.

I know it's always a challenge to get women to feel comfortable in a situation where the guy is naked and she is dressed. That power dynamic and the woman's general fear of that is always palpable. Getting the lady to understand that you are naked for her visual benefit and that she has the power over this can be a difficult undertaking in trying to overcome this fear. I've had several potential photographers run away because they feared this, especially when I seemed poised to accept their suggestion.

On flashing. I did have a gay guy flash me once and I just laughed at him. I think that's what a flasher fears the most. I've also had several ladies do it. Most of these were in public situations in my work and, thus, I could do nothing else but smile or usually make a lot of loud noises for them to cover up as there were kids around. I had to pretend that I was shocked, though, in fact, I was usually amused and they had no idea that I was into CFNM. It was also fun to watch how shocked the other guys were at this.

I experienced another incident like this once. It happened in college. A friend and I were sitting in a sauna after a racquetball game. We were just chatting. The sauna was full. Some of the guys (I forget how many) were gay and showing off to each other, but my friend and I ignored this. We were not that way. Suddenly, the door opened, and about a dozen screaming girls ran in. They were staging a raid. For some reason, the women's sauna had been built smaller than the men's and they were protesting this. All the girls were dressed. The gays got infuriated at this transgression; heated arguments ensued over those same feelings as a woman gets when a guy flashes them, but in reverse. They all felt violated. I watched this with some amusement and my friend and I, as a couple of the few straight guys there, were surrounded by girls and that power dynamic was with them and we did not know what was going to happen, but we decided to roll with it. We knew that the ladies were really wound up and wondered if they would attack us right then and there. They were in power. Yet, they restrained themselves. Since he and I both were well ensconced with girlfriends then, we had to gracefully decline their offers to go home with them, though I wished that I could have done that. I'm surprised none of the girls had cameras with them then, but this was before the age of the smartphone, and they were bulky things. When I told my girlfriend, a photographer, she wanted to re-stage the event:) We never could get it together. I wanted to, though. Oh, well.


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