virginian wrote:
Hi Brad,
Glad you liked the story.
Yes she is kind of married - has partner but not sure how much attention she gets.
I forgot to put that when she offered to hose me down I was really tempted to drop the shorts (not wanting to get them wet) and walk away from the fence, so she got a view of my bum - and would have delighted if she invited me to turn for a soaking on the front.
When the sun comes, that is my plan - and even better of her mom is round - to then suggest one of them re-applies my lotion - which I guess her mom would jump at !
It would be amazing if that comes off !!
Can't wait to put the plan to effect.
Roll on sunshine - for now, I do the odd naked garden wander before she gets up - you never know....
I've often given this advice to folks on this board (even when not asked), which is based upon personal experience and observation. For men, it's very easy to misconstrue intentions of women - although women seem to be masters at it. For us, it's sometimes like figuring out the Da Vinci Code. The worst is when I see nude guys parading about at clothing-optional beaches invading the space of the females while being oblivious to how those females make every attempt to communicate they have absolutely no interest.
So...here's my standard advice. If the opportunity is with a family relation (i.e. SIL/MIL), a neighbor, a co-worker or someone who will still be there no matter how good or bad it is, be VERY careful. Doing something that can be seen as indecently exposing yourself not only might get around to everyone in your circle, but could result in legal problems, depending upon the jurisdiction. Once done, it cannot be undone. So it is better to take the "safe harbor" approach and never assume anything.
Over time, you may get better information from her about the situation and what is an acceptable action. I liken it to smoking meats (which I do quite well I might add!) - "low and slow". Baby steps are always best. And one last bit of caution, which I think most men miss about women. Their moods and desires swing back and forth like a pendulum. One day they might make a strong suggestion that they'd love to see you in the buff, the next they might say doing so would be the last thing they want. I have many stories about women I know and their position on CFNM I could tell, but that's another forum topic.
Finally, I've been shocked with the end response of some of the women I've had such flirtatious experiences and which could always happen. After the moment of full exposure and the delight you both have in recognizing she loves it, for you it may be the end of it. But for me in several instances, the woman thought it was just foreplay and had bigger expectations - for them it was the first step into a physical relationship that they were anxiously anticipating. And when it didn't happen, their feelings would get hurt. Again, figuring out what goes on in a woman's head is like trying to solve the universal field theory, at least it has been for me.