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My favourites are the unplanned situations - accidental or spying.

I would love to go to a clothing optional beach someday! The power dynamic of women in bikinis and males being nude sounds like it would be a lot of fun.

Out of all of these, right now my top one is art modelling, I really want to try it but not sure how to go about it and with the current situation it's even harder.

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Man, that's the easiest CFNM to arrange--you gotta try it! After you build up the courage, invite a platonic female friend to join you. Be sure she takes pictures of you alone, and of the two of you together. I guarantee you she'll show you off to her girlfriends!

The dynamic is in your head. You feel a certain way but it's not the beach that's really creating that situation .

Example. I was in Barcelona and see a girl walking along the beach. She had the lost tourist look. If you've seen it you know it. Eyes down. Almost blushing. Trying to find the quickest way off the nude beach.

About ten or more metres behind her a group of girls that she seems part of. Being behind they'd figured out things in time and are taking the path on the outside of the beach while the lost tourist is right in the middle of the beach.

I didn't really think much at this point and just went back to my snack. After about a minute I get up to toss my garbage. On the way back to my towel the tourist literally runs into me. She was so worried about seeing anything she wasn't looking where she was going.

First things she does is look up to say sorry. Remembers where she is and looks down . Right at my crotch. Looks back up and sees naked people behind me. Decides to look back down

We say hi. Chat a bit about the beach. She gets a little more comfortable but believe me she was not in any sort of power position.

Even when women aren't shy and are just looking you over the power dynamic is only if you personally feel weak.

Having a woman or group of women commenting on your ass doesn't really change swimsuit or not. It's what you're feeling at the time.

I selected:
Private w/ spouse or GF, gf invites friends over
Growing up experiences - camp, swimming w/ friends, etc.

Both are innocent, organic experiences with true female enjoyment of the situation.

Clothing optional beach.
Orchestrated CFNM party (*not* BDSM oriented/femdom)
Growing up experiences.

Those are my 3 favorites.

I like reading about them more than experiencing them though.

Bonus points if either, the poor guy ends up losing his swimsuit an eitherd has to sneak around a bunch of girls or has a small dick and they all giggle at him or both.

The art modeling thing shouldn't be too difficult to arrange, although it is true that the current situation limits most opportunities.

As for me, I had been divorced for a couple of years, and was looking for some way to make money as well as possibly make friends and/or get some sort of social life. I called the local university, knowing that they offered drawing type art classes, but not knowing if they used models or how they got them. I did the application thing and was told that I was now on their models list. It was almost a year later that I got called, by which time I had decided that they weren't interested or didn't have a need at the time. My very first time as a model was working with a female, in what was a figure drawing final exam for the semester. The teacher told me to wear bikini type underwear or a speedo type swimsuit; the female would be nude. The art class officer manager was aware of who I was and why I was there when I reported to the class. A couple of days later she called me to ask if I was interested in and available to work for an open figure drawing group. I asked what I was supposed to wear, and she laughed before saying "nothing". I told myself that I knew that this (posing nude) was a possibility, and told myself that if I was ever asked, I would go through with it at least once. Then it would either be a "been there, done that, never again" or a "that wasn't so bad, I'll do it again if I'm asked" type decision. I also guessed that the university didn't use nude male models for some reason.

I was nervous but excited when it was time for me to strip and pose for the figure drawing group, partially because I still had no idea what I was doing. I was simply depending on the group leader to tell me what to do and how to do it. Apparently my efforts were acceptable and I ended up starting what turned out to be almost 30 years (maybe 10 times a year) working for this group, that met once a week. It might have been my third time ever, and second working for the university as an art class model when I was asked about my availability. I asked if it was a nude or dressed assignment, and the instructor seemed to be pleasantly surprised that I was willing to go nude.

Anyway, I'd say call your local university or community college and ask about modeling opportunities. Don't appear to be too eager, and simply say that modeling is something you would like to try. Don't ask about or offer nudity during the call; let them raise the subject. You can express your willingness in an actual job application. Hopefully, in the Spring the situation will be better and you'll find these opportunities. Another option is to contact your local teaching hospital if you have one, and ask about a Standardized Patient program. That's another experience I have, and can share my insights if anyone has questions.

Something that I don't think has been mentioned.

I love women who on seeing you at the beach turn to their bf/husbands and tell them how they should go naked.

Some do it in teasing ways. Some in more sexual ways . But it's always fun.

At times you'll see groups that are mainly female and they'll turn to the one or two guys.

Some of the beaches I go to have nearby towns. It can be fun to run into the women in town. Standing in line at the fast food place or just walking around.

Medical situations with female doctor I'd say. Considering it's one of the few real CFNM experiences I've had, makes it more exciting to fantasize about similar scenarios.

i was applying for a job and they required full medical check-up and the nurse told me to undress and then she left the room. i was so excited ,but then wen the door was opened a male nurse came and torched my balls. it was a very uncomfortable

Must have brought a tear to your eyes. It makes me cringe just thinking about it.

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So many to choose from... But mostly it is the locker room scenario, due to my high school fetish with my PE teacher. She was quite hot (for a teacher) and i always imagined her entering our locker room while we were showering, and what would be her reaction. Unhappilly she only entered once, when we were all dressed. However that fetish always remained within me througout life.

Clothing optional beaches my favorite cfnm situation

I like seeing women spying and not the silly porn videos where they get caught or fess up, and the guy just decides to ram her instead of getting mad. It's too fantastical, and the voyeurism is the cool part. Doing something you're not supposed to and enjoying it, violating someone's privacy. We'd might say we would never do such a thing in real life, but I think almost everyone would if they were pretty sure they wouldn't get caught.

Nude beach probably since I find it most realistic or likely of a scenario as opposed to the fantasy ones described above

I like realism scenarios, like others mentioned, usually scenes of embarressment or where the power is tipped in favor of the woman. Without that dynamic it is just nudity.

Non-Orchestrated situations. Anything besides parties, public events and porn.

I am happy to just observe movie and tv scenes. I have been looking for a database of scenes for some time without much luck, there must be somewhere.