acfnmfan2 wrote:
hbr1 - I can definitely relate to wishing that I could turn back the clock. I have Never had the opportunity to engage in CFNM type activities. It just wasn't something the wife and I did. Now, at 66, I have spent literally more than half my life divorced and almost permanently single. I was always faithful to my girlfriend on the rare, short occasions when I had one, and didn't know if or how to raise the possibility of one of her friends ever joining us for some fun. I think back to the days of my youth, when I so desperately wanted to fit in, be invited to join in, and find myself with friends and a social life. Streaking was a fad when I started college, and I never got to do that. I know no one would have joined me and recruited others to join us if I proposed the idea, and I was never aware of someone I knew at least casually from the dorm or some class actually doing it, much less having them ask if I wanted to join them. Now, I'm just an old man with nothing but fantasies, long ago memories of fun one on one events, and an acceptance that I will never get to turn fantasy into reality or experience one on one fun one more time.
Side comment - I'm sure it was there, but I wish I had known about college art classes using nude models when I was in college. When I finally did that, I was aware that I was old enough to be the student's father. There was certainly no chance that I'd see one of the female artists somewhere on campus and we would recognize each other.
I feel like looks and age don't matter as much if you are looking for a simple and genuine CFNM that is relatively void of sexual quality. I feel like what appeals a lot of the nude male isn't necessarily how one looks but how one behaves and the type of energy they bring.
Being a naturist, I'm comfortable being naked in most situations as long as it doesn't bother anyone else. A while back, I had a good friend friend who was accepting and comfortable with me being naked. He was an openly gay, and nothing ever happened between us since he did not find me attractive what so ever. I'm over weight and i don't meet most conventional beauty standards for what a male should be.
I recall one time when we were hanging out while I was naked and he was clothed, he had told me that he found my nudity attractive, because it showed how confident and comfortable I was with myself. Despite not being attracted to me, me being naked was something we both appreciated for different reasons. I feel that women are primarily the same, most of the time I've been nude around a female, its usually pretty basic interactions where my nudity is not the center of attention.
So I think when it comes to just being naked, I don't think you have to fit a certain standard to meet expectations.
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