Jocasta wrote:
there are exceptions where people are placed in situations that contradict these norms and traditions, most often in the field of medical care. Regardless of the fact that these situations are completely legal, they cause strong and quite contradictory feelings in those who find themselves in such a situation. And while adults have some option of choosing a doctor of their preferred gender, the under@ge patients are entirely subject to medical regulations or the demands and decisions of their parents or legal chaperones. This puts boys in an extremely delicate situation, because most pediatricians are female, and the main caregiver and chaperone for intimate medical examinations is mostly the mother, aunt, grandmother or other female relative. Although this is considered acceptable in most societies, extremely strong feelings of shame, embarrassment and discomfort, reinforced by the sense of necessity and inevitability of the situation, often leave a deep imprint on the young man's mind and are sometimes the cause of the emergence of CFNM tendencies. For good, this addiction is not a mental deviation, but rather a cause of thrill and erotic and sexual charge. This is evidenced by the many stories and confessions that illustrate the whole range of rather contradictory feelings.
This is an extremely interesting and delicate matter, which, in my opinion, deserves to be commented on and discussed.
I really liked your post. Did you study psychology?
I worked as a secretary in a pediatric clinic 5 years ago. There were 4 pediatricians, all women, and only 2 offices, so each day there was a schedule for 2 doctors.
My job was to register patients, take care of payment for private patients and weigh and measure patients' height before appointments.
Regarding weighing and height measurement, everyone should wear only underwear, boys and girls. Some boys were extremely embarrassing, I think because it was a woman taking measurements. By the way, there were some 17-year-old patients whose parents preferred to continue consulting with the pediatrician they had been following since they were little.
A pediatric consultation includes assessing the stage of sexual maturation (Tanner stages), especially in pre-adolescents. There are also diseases in which it is essential to evaluate the genitals, such as mumps. Even with the office door closed, it was possible to listen to the entire negotiation to show "the parts"... it was very rare for a girl to make it difficult, but many boys insisted that they didn't want to, they cried... probably for being a woman doctor