My first experience of CFNM was in a men's changing room. This was in Spain, and the changing room had a smaller entrance area, where men could change without being seen from outside, but separate from the larger main area of the changing room, and with no view of the showers. I went in with my 7 year old son (his father was not with us), asking loudly before entering if anybody was there. Nobody answered from the smaller entrance area, so we went in, and I was about to start helping my son to change into his swimsuit. We'd barely started, when a man of about 20 returned from his swim. I explained to him why I was there and asked if it was ok, offering that we'd be done in a few minutes, or that he could change in the larger main area of the locker room. He said it wasn't a problem, and started getting things ready from his locker. He took off his swimsuit, and picked up his towel and shower gel ready to go to the shower. He seemed not to mind me being there at all, and made no effort at all to hide his penis or butt from me, as he headed off to the shower, with a quick unashamed glance in my direction as he walked past. I'd enjoyed the view, so I consciously didn't do much to try to make my son be quick, in case the newcomer would return. His shower was very quick, and before we'd left, he returned again, shiny with water from the shower, and still drying off. We smiled at each other as he returned, and he dried off his whole body with me casting several glances in his direction. We made eye contact a couple of times during this. I certainly enjoyed looking at him, and I felt that he was enjoying being looked at, and I also felt that neither of us was being perverted or weird -- it felt so good, and natural, to me, for him to be unashamed of his body, and for me to enjoy looking at it.
Most of my other experiences that I've enjoyed in the same way are probably not "true" CFNM. Mainly various beaches where nudity is acceptable, and where men are more likely to be nude than women. I enjoy the casual nature of the nudity there, but of course some women are nude (including me sometimes), and not all men are nude.
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