Hey, Art here, Indeed, I've thought a great deal about what the most exquisite CFNM scenario is or would be. I'm naked in front of my clothed girlfriend all the time but I must admit that the eroticism here has been played out. Even though she often reacts to my being naked in front of her while she's entirely clothed, It's all too normal. She and I are very close, live together, love each other, and have seen each other nude many many times. I can hardly call this CFNM, even though, technically it is. So, FOR ME, a definitive CFNM encounter, from the male's perspective, has engendered an acute awareness of his state of nakedness. For me, a scenario that renders an acute awareness of a male's nakedness must require at least a touch of embarrassment, necessitating the involvement of a female with whom he has not had a physical sexual experience with. Clothing optional beaches/hot springs can provide opportunities such as these, as long as the female or females are able to feel at ease, safe, not threatened in any way, relaxed enough to think, 'hey look, there's a guy over there with not a stitch of clothing on,' which in turn, through her approving body language, will cause the naked male to think, 'hey, I'm naked and she's not, and it seems that she's appreciating all this, even at the expense of my possible embarrassment.' A situation that has accomplished these two things, her enjoyment, and his acute awareness of being naked, has delivered a CFNM situation which is close to the ideal. Also, The seemingly likely but probably very rarely occurring YMCA/school swimming CFNM experiences must have been quite exquisite for some and mortifying for others. I wouldn't know, that was before my time. Some of the stories are real, I bet. I can only imagine. And I imagine extreme embarrassment accompanied with extreme excitement. In short, and again, this is entirely my opinion -- A legit CFNM experience should be safe, embarrassing, and enjoyed by all involved.
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