I'm a male in my 50's now; I've had a number of CFNM experiences some of which I'll detail as I get more acquainted with the board. I just found this forum and I'm delighted to be here.
My first 'true' experience came at the hands of a girlfriend I had in university. It was a three year relationship and sexually I connected with her at a higher level than I'd experienced before. I was 20 when I met her, she was 18 and in first year.
We parted ways when she was 22 and I was 24, I think.
She loved playing games, of all sorts, and making bets on various things. She was extremely bright and academic but had a bit of a devlish personality.
Often we'd play a strip game: favourites were strip jenga, strip four-in-a-row... or cards, like strip high-low to keep it simple, and the default was often "winner says, loser does".
Effectively the loser became the sex slave of the winner for an hour afterward.
What caught me by surprise at that age was that although I loved winning and being in complete control and making her do whatever I wanted, it was equally a turn on when I lost and she was in charge.
I vividly remember the first time I lost a 'sudden death' card game (which wasn't a 'strip' game per se but was winner is the master and loser is the slave) and this beautiful, fully dressed young girl pulled her chair around to my side of the table to enable a full view, perched on the edge of her chair with her arms crossed, nodded at me with a smirk on her face and said "Okay, now strip..."
I felt some embarrassment, was blushing and squirming for certain, but I was getting totally turned on as well.
I still get aroused from the imagery of that moment, and it's remained unclear to me whether I'm a switch or just an exhibitionist.
She loved light BDSM and actually introduced me to it, and I trusted her completely.
She would make me bend over and spank me and it might have stung but it was never really painful.
Or she'd make me go streaking - like running outside and touching a tree and back, but nothing more humiliating than that.
I would get my revenge on her a number of times and it was a good way to learn to explore each others bodies.
Thanks to the organizers for running this forum. Now that I've found the place I'm looking forward to participating.
I have 30 years worth of stories to tell...
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