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Got involved in a 70’s CFNM party before the term was really in vogue. It seems to add a bit more sexual tension than typical nudism experiences as long as the females involved are willing participants. At age 70 just wish I had pursued the hobby at an earlier age when I had a bit less to show and it didn’t make me feel like a dirty old geezer exhibitionist.

I hear you man.

hbr1 - I can definitely relate to wishing that I could turn back the clock. I have Never had the opportunity to engage in CFNM type activities. It just wasn't something the wife and I did. Now, at 66, I have spent literally more than half my life divorced and almost permanently single. I was always faithful to my girlfriend on the rare, short occasions when I had one, and didn't know if or how to raise the possibility of one of her friends ever joining us for some fun. I think back to the days of my youth, when I so desperately wanted to fit in, be invited to join in, and find myself with friends and a social life. Streaking was a fad when I started college, and I never got to do that. I know no one would have joined me and recruited others to join us if I proposed the idea, and I was never aware of someone I knew at least casually from the dorm or some class actually doing it, much less having them ask if I wanted to join them. Now, I'm just an old man with nothing but fantasies, long ago memories of fun one on one events, and an acceptance that I will never get to turn fantasy into reality or experience one on one fun one more time.

Side comment - I'm sure it was there, but I wish I had known about college art classes using nude models when I was in college. When I finally did that, I was aware that I was old enough to be the student's father. There was certainly no chance that I'd see one of the female artists somewhere on campus and we would recognize each other.

Well speaking from the point of a younger female, if it is just a genuine CFNM experience you are looking for then your age is not a problem at all. Not all of us girls are looking for Adonis' to show up, your willingness to participate and indulge us girls is far more interesting than your actual body.

encouraging comment but I'm willing to guess you are in the minority from a woman's perspective.

As an older guy myself, I can definitely vouch for @naughtygal's view point.

I have been to clothing optional beaches countless time since 1994 and I can say from experience that young women 20 and 30 year olds are not that interest in what you look like. As long as you indulge them as naughtygal put it, all is good.

I don't have the same build I had 30 years ago. With that said, I still come across young women who are interested in the male body, regardless of age.

However, I must say. Whatever your intention is in a CFNM situation, there's always that sexual element to it. That goes for both male and female. Afterall, man is a sexual creature. It is inherited from the first commandment (go forth and multiply)

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I'm right there with you Chris58.

It's more about how you behave rather than how you look. Of course good looks can help, but an ordinary guy with a good attitude will have a better day at the c/o beach than a male model/body builder who acts like a dick.

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That make this old man happy. Wish I new you and could participate and indulge you.

I wasn't alive in the 70's, but wanting to turn back time is something I can relate to... Although it might've been more interesting if my current self could go back and take the place of my kid self. Those times when I went naked on the beach could be made so much more fun that way...

I think that all of us who were of age in the 1970s and participated in CFNM wish we would have done more. I would do it now, if I could find a party that would accept and enjoy my participation, but I am afraid that they don't exist.