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PostPosted: Mon Sep 21, 2020 1:58 pm 
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One fantasy I like to envision is having a young man stripped naked by women. He is then spanked or forced to masturbate. Better yet, they hold him down and masturbate him themselves so he cumming against his will. I find the humiliation involved very arousing. Anyone else?


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profken wrote:
One fantasy I like to envision is having a young man stripped naked by women. He is then spanked or forced to masturbate. Better yet, they hold him down and masturbate him themselves so he cumming against his will. I find the humiliation involved very arousing. Anyone else?


Consent is an essential element in CFNM. On this board, what you are discussing would be ok in a BDSM type scenario where it is consensual role playing, with safe words and such, not as an unprovoked attack.

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Agree, consent is essential. Having said that, I somewhat can appreciate profken's fantasy but I'd describe it as follows: I would love to have enough courage to actually host a party involving myself and a group of interested women. I would offer to be their personal servant for the evening. They would be allowed to make me do anything (or do anything to me) except for things I would specifically not consent to. I would give them consent to strip me naked, spank me, and force me to masturbate. Better yet, they hold me down and masturbate me themselves so that I'm cumming. Then they would make me get on my knees and kiss and worship all their feet. I would find that humiliating and arousing.


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i totally get into the embarassing, humiliatioin situation, but i am VOLUNTARILY allowing myself to be put in that situation. Its the embarassment and the power switch, and being totally just an object for womens amusement.
i have never been forced to jerk off but one time when performing for a large group of women, i hadnt cum in two weeks! i usually use a pump to get hard when its for women, and i wear not one but TWO tight cock rings to keep my dick fully engorged. I do my comedic strip, get totally naked, heart pounding then i dance flopping my mini boner as fast as i can hoping they wont see anything but a blur. Im terrified. however all of that flopping starts to make me drip and causes a bit of sensation. I finished the main part of my number, then went to the second part where i go out and dance around the audience on the dance floor. It kind of turned into all these ladies flooding the dance floor, so my manager, told me to get up on a chair. I was wearring slippery boots, so i grabbed two chairs, one foot on each, and the place had a lower ceiling, so i could hold onto the ibeam rafters just above my head. So im up dancing on these chairs which are about a foot or so apart, while girls are posing for pics next to me, you know the type, where they point at my boner ( cuz noone would know where to look in the pic? lol) i was dancing flopping my boner, tight balls flopping, when two younger gals came up beside me for a pic, one on each side. they had some older lady directly in front of me, dressed really nice, very uptight. she was trying to work their phone camera. im still dancing, when all of a sudden, one of them reached through my legs and up, grabbing my boner and jerking it a few quick times, and her hand hit hard against my nuts, which is something that makes me shoot. well, i felt that immediate sensantion, looked to my bf over at the side, and he said by the look on my face, he knew exactly what was about to happen. I had to hang on to the rafters to keep the chairs from sliding apart i was standing on, otherwise i would have grabbed my boner tight and stopped from shooting. but i would have fallen. It was a worst case scenario and i was humiliated, i had never ever cum in front of a woman. and i didnt want to now, but i couldnt stop it. All of a sudden,, like in slow motion, my 4 " boner twitch and i saw a small drop shoot, hoping noone saw, and that was it, but nope, my dick then spasmed up and down and out shot a huge rope of jizz flying into the air, 2 weeks worth then a second and i heard ladies screaming, and clapping and cheering, my face was so red and hot, and i thought i was in a nightmare. something i swore id never do. then a another big shot and another, like 5 or 6 huge streams of jizz, then a few sputters, my boner dancing on its own. i looked over and saw my bf laughing hysterically. all of a sudden, i noticed the older sophisticated uptight lady who was taking the pictures for the girls, looking down at her purple velvet jacket a huge steam of jizz right next to her expensive peacock pin, ill never forget that image. everyone was laughing, and of course that lady was pissed, then the hostess of the party came over, stopped the music and chewed me out in front of every one and said, how improper i was, it was a pig and she wasnt going to pay me, and that i would have to pay for the dry cleaning and they would take me to court and they would show the video and the jacket. I was so humilited beyond imagination and so not only did i know get my 50 bucks, but i had to pay for the dry cleaning also. she said i was lucky i didnt have to pay for the expensive jacket.
so thats the ONLY time at that point.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 28, 2020 2:43 pm 
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I think I know what you mean Profken , heres a little something I just made along a similar theme .
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( click the pic if it is not animated , in preview its static for some reason Image )


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I agree that you cannot have forced in this way. Where one side is at a disadvantage whilst in BDSM it could be very exciting if there's no consent it's not good.


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Being exposed and vulnerable seems kind of sexy.


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Consensual non-consent is a term I've seen thrown around with other kinks.

Practically I see this playing out as an opportunity to choose a "scene" as would be typical for a roleplay or bondage type kink for example.

With CFNM I see this as the discussion with a willing CF prior to starting a CFNM scenario. One example I've seen posted elsewhere involved a man stripping while doing a "quote" for some handyman work.

This type of thing could be negotiated in advance and would allow the parties to carry out a fantasy while remaining in character throughout.


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Tomswankbank wrote:
Consensual non-consent...


This has always been a tough concept for me. In the world of fantasy, it's just that - hentai/manga and many professionally produced porn vids for men in the CFNM genre depict it. Many men have "forced" CFNM fantasies, which is why they have paid millions to the producers of such porn. In the CFNM party world (rather "CFnm" parties), I see CFNM party group discussions such as those on Fetlife.com, the men are mostly "topping from the bottom"...that is, they impose some kind of "forced" fantasy concept for a CFNM gathering presumptuously thinking it is what the women want yet never simply asking. Their suggestion is then followed by dozens of posts -- all men -- agreeing that would make a great CFNM gathering with all men assuming the ladies want it - but again, not knowing women well enough to be so assuming. A common theme is the women demanding forced bi-sexual sex between the nude men so they can watch, followed by a lot of guys (and only guys) agreeing that the women all wanted it. Then I, or a lone female, might post "But isn't that just what you want, and not what the females want...have you ever honestly ASKED a woman what she'd like?" When I post it, I then get attacked by those guys claiming I have no right to dictate what the women should get out of it. But then, those are the same type of lonely guys that have created the CFNM porn industry.

In real life; however, it's tough. I once knew a couple that wanted me to do a role play, and that is, they knew another couple wherein she wanted a guy to come over and rape her. They showed me her photo and she was slender and stunning. They said they would leave the front door open and I'd come in and just rape her...because that is what she wanted (I don't know if they'd be watching or just her and me). I politely declined for two reasons. First is the dangerous consequences of doing it (many bad scenarios could happen), and second, I don't have the DNA wiring for me to enjoy something like that. I know I'm not the only guy wherein a masochistic female wanted me to tie her up, talk mean to her, whip her, etc, etc, but again, that would be her fantasy, not mine - I could never do it.

But with the above said, during the years I was actively involved with CFNM parties, the "empowered women" would force certain of their desires on the guys. Common ones were groping the guys genitals, trying to get photos of the naked men, or in some instances, demanding one of the guys jack himself off so the ladies could watch. At many of these gatherings, after the party, the ladies and guys would spin off somewhere to have sex. But then, that's just my experiences.

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I used the "consentual non-consent" terminology with a "friend" on Fetlife and they told me that the term implies a lot more than I had considered.

I viewed it more as an agreed upon scene to be acted out where it appeared that I was not in control.

Brad: I take your point about women being in control. I often find that my fantasies don't match what I'd actually want and I imagine it would be the same for most women.

It would be very interesting to hear more about what the women actually want as well.


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