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PostPosted: Sat Nov 19, 2022 6:24 pm 
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Jocasta - You're new here so please read our rules (specifically #4)

I've removed the links because it shows young girls in a shower room in the presence of adult naked men showering.

Discussions surrounding real-life situations that have been experienced, particularly when the intent is to understand culture or transformative moments in growing up, are acceptable. Again, please read our rules thoroughly before you post further.


I'm sorry! I never even thought that a pixelated illustration of a real life situation that seems to be acceptable to parents, their children, society and apparently not prosecuted by the law after it happen, could be unacceptable on a CFNM forum.
Of course, you're right that rules are meant to be followed, not commented on, so I'll abide by them.


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Jocasta wrote:
Brad wrote:
Jocasta - You're new here so please read our rules (specifically #4)

I've removed the links because it shows young girls in a shower room in the presence of adult naked men showering.

Discussions surrounding real-life situations that have been experienced, particularly when the intent is to understand culture or transformative moments in growing up, are acceptable. Again, please read our rules thoroughly before you post further.


I'm sorry! I never even thought that a pixelated illustration of a real life situation that seems to be acceptable to parents, their children, society and apparently not prosecuted by the law after it happen, could be unacceptable on a CFNM forum.
Of course, you're right that rules are meant to be followed, not commented on, so I'll abide by them.


Glad you understand. I'm sure many on this forum will agree with you. In fact, I've seen a lot of hypocrisy wherein female children in the presence of adult nude men seems acceptable when it is at, say, Bay to Breakers run, pride parades or clothing-optional beaches. But take the same people and put them in different settings, they scream "pedophile fodder!".

We're in times wherein depictions that show "nudity + children" are often deemed guilty until proven innocent, and there is a veritable witch hunt for those that allow such content to be shown on forums. And as owner of this forum, I can't allow it as I am personally at risk.

Feel free to discuss real-life experiences that reveal how different cultures view such things, or times in your life wherein you experienced, say, a CFNM situation as a developing person and may have had a psychological affect on you. To me, these are educational and are in line with the purpose of this forum.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2022 4:51 pm 
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Brad, but you got to admit Jocasta is a great name for a woman on a CFNM site Forum on women watching boys


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2022 9:36 am 
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Brad wrote:
Glad you understand. I'm sure many on this forum will agree with you. In fact, I've seen a lot of hypocrisy wherein female children in the presence of adult nude men seems acceptable when it is at, say, Bay to Breakers run, pride parades or clothing-optional beaches. But take the same people and put them in different settings, they scream "pedophile fodder!".

We're in times wherein depictions that show "nudity + children" are often deemed guilty until proven innocent, and there is a veritable witch hunt for those that allow such content to be shown on forums. And as owner of this forum, I can't allow it as I am personally at risk.

Feel free to discuss real-life experiences that reveal how different cultures view such things, or times in your life wherein you experienced, say, a CFNM situation as a developing person and may have had a psychological affect on you. To me, these are educational and are in line with the purpose of this forum.


Absolutely agree! More and more people live in an environment where nudity is not a big deal. Even recently, it has been publicly demonstrated in various themed parades in scanty or no clothing. That is exactly why it is a bit hypocritical to measure in different measures.
The examples you have listed, and many others, testify that people get used to nudity and start not noticing it. Just like it is no big deal for nudists women or the females of the tribal communities in Africa and Amazonia of all ages to see bare penises throughout their all lives. Does this sight arouse any feelings in them?
I do not think. They probably have about the same feelings at the sight of a naked flacid penis and a naked... nose, for example.
But let's imagine the different situation. Adolescent boy or a young man in the prime of puberty, or even an ordinary man, who grew up in a relatively conservative environment and was brought up in such a spirit, finds himself in a men's bath or change room whith stark naked girls 12 - 13 yo, something acceptable in Japan.
Or a little girl, maiden, or ordinary woman of a similar society and upbringing, finds herself at a religious ceremony in India where a grown man as a monk conducts a ceremony completely naked and with exposed bare genitalia inches before their eyes. Probably the feelings, emotions and impressions will be explosive.
Mobility and freedom of movement between different cultures enables many people to experience exciting unforgettable moments and events, unthinkable in their native environment, that leave a lasting mark on their lives and minds. And those who cannot afford it will be satisfied by exchanging impressions and emotions and to experience it virtually in the wonderful forums like this one :)


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 27, 2022 6:14 am 
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I spent almost 20 years in S.Korea. Had to get used to the fact that girls up to around 12/13yo
would routinely be seen in the men's area showers, and boys in women's areas.
It seems to be a much healthier attitude to me.


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 01, 2022 12:00 pm 
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smallpaul wrote:
I spent almost 20 years in S.Korea. Had to get used to the fact that girls up to around 12/13yo
would routinely be seen in the men's area showers, and boys in women's areas.
It seems to be a much healthier attitude to me.


Ok. For 20 years you have adopted the habits and traditions of the local people and find this behavior acceptable and healthy. But after all, we are talking about girls and boys of 12 - 13 years who have definitely started and even progressed into pub@rty and with noticeably visible changes in the physique and private parts. Although the mere presence of childr@n of such an age in the opposite-gender bath apparently does not constitute a problem according to local laws and understandings, it inevitably raises erotic and sexual feelings at least in some of the visitors with, say, with a more strongly developed sensitivity and sexuality or in the younger visitors who do not know how to control and hide their feelings and related reactions.
And there were probably visitors from other cultures who found themselves in such a situation for the first time and it would be normal for them to be surprised, excited or confused. Have you noticed any similar trends or quirks other than what the standard local visitors are used to.
Are you inclined to share a situation that made an exciting impression on you and left an imprint on your consciousness.


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Taking the title of the thread at face value, my best experiences of this were in rugby environments. In both cases there were, for reasonably acceptable reasons, women in the male changing rooms.

First time was after a match, the club usually gave the team drinks after a game. I did nto realise this initially and was getting changed after the, match to go into the showers. I was muddy and taking my clothes off, as were the rest if the team when two female members of the bar staff came into the changing rooms, each with a couple of buckets of cold beers.

Initially I was a bit surprised, but once I realised that the rest of the players continued about their business of getting changed / going into the showers while the two women walked round the players offering them a drink and generally chatting, it was like a whole new world had opened up. Unfortunately for me, I only played there for about 6 months as I was on secondment with work, but that was a great time in my life.

The second time was when I played for a team who had a male and female physio duo. The female did not usually come into the changing room, but occasionally had to if there was an injury or if she needed to use the massage table. I got used to her not being in the changing room and after one match was showering, so did not see her come in. The man who was sat next to me in the changing room was having his ankle looked at by her, initially as I walked back in naked I did not see her. he was sat on the bench with his foot on the floor, she was kneeling down to bandage it. Which put little me at the same height as her head.

She told me to "be careful where I pointed it" - then said "not that it will do any damage". I quickly grabbed my towel but it gave the rest of the changing room a laugh


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TrentSteele wrote:
Taking the title of the thread at face value, my best experiences of this were in rugby environments. In both cases there were, for reasonably acceptable reasons, women in the male changing rooms.

First time was after a match, the club usually gave the team drinks after a game. I did nto realise this initially and was getting changed after the, match to go into the showers. I was muddy and taking my clothes off, as were the rest if the team when two female members of the bar staff came into the changing rooms, each with a couple of buckets of cold beers.

She told me to "be careful where I pointed it" - then said "not that it will do any damage". I quickly grabbed my towel but it gave the rest of the changing room a laugh


I too experienced regualr female incursion into the male changing areas after rugby games. It was almost 'normalised' at one club I played for. So most of my buddies girlfriends, wives and a few sisters too all knew how big every dick was. I was the smallest almost every time.

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I too experienced regualr female incursion into the male changing areas after rugby games. It was almost 'normalised' at one club I played for. So most of my buddies girlfriends, wives and a few sisters too all knew how big every dick was. I was the smallest almost every time.

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As a small dicked man and full on subscriber to SPH, it always gave me a sense of excitement to see the smirk on a girl's face as she saw me naked. The smirk that said "I know you have a small dick"


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As a small dicked man and full on subscriber to SPH, it always gave me a sense of excitement to see the smirk on a girl's face as she saw me naked. The smirk that said "I know you have a small dick"


For me I had to front it out when I was younger. Because I was physically big and was known as a bruiser on the rugby field I could hold my own. A lot of guys knew I could kick their ass.
The women though were generally into it, many pretended they were not, but came back for more. One or two loved it. I mean were all over it and would slap guys in the buttocks and even grab their cocks and balls, but in a fun way, not exactly sexual.
A fair few semi's would paraded about and the occasional boner too. Not sure if any guys were gay? Back in the mid to late nineties it was assumed any and all rugger guys were confident, heavy drinking, hard straight men.
I had a nickname in the team as 'Tiny'. Most people not in the rugby circles thought it was an ironic nickname as I was a big guy at 6ft and 220lb, but those who knew, knew. Women calling me tiny and who knew was one of the turning points in my sexual evolution.

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